You are hurt, lost, things are getting worse than what you have expected, you feel WORDLESS. It seems like the world has turned upside down, everything about you is wrong, and you feel so alone.
Don’t blame yourself. Don’t try to find excuses by making another soul suffer. Face the circumstances, let things die down, and wait for the inspirations and the turning point to arrive.
It is normal to be rejected, it is okay to feel blue, it is wise to learn from your experiences, move on, and let the failure or discouragement to remind you what’s ahead, how to eliminate similar errors, and cook up a better strategy in order to enhance your chance of success.
Sometimes you simply have to step back to see the boundlessness of the sky.
Something great or better may come out of your experience.
For example, Hillary Clinton lost her presidential nomination during 2008 campaign, many people teased her, some left her and leaving her in great debt, and the rest criticized her or even celebrated her loss.
As you see now, she did not simply whine, blame, and give up her desire to serve the country. She grieved for maybe only one night, then she came out and launched her new campaign by supporting her opponent Mr. Obama.
My point is that life gives your pains, adversities, and losses for good purposes. If you are aware of the regular change of the season, you know after long, icy, bitter cold winter, spring is coming next. Mrs. Hillary Clinton’s case shows you that you have the power to turn things around, and you can win eventually in another way around. I bet she is happier and better suitable for her State of Secretary position.
Believe me, life has been fair to everyone. You are the creation of the Goodness, and as long as you keep your faith in life, you will prevail.
A new opportunity may be awaiting for you, accept the life you have, cherish what you have now, wait for Your Time, you are doing just FINE!
PS: This morning, I visited Val (see her link: http://www.valbrussell.wordpress.com/) and found out that she is distressed by a rejection of her submission to a publisher…I am inspired to write this piece and share with all of you, do you feel the same when you lost you job, failed to have children on your own, or got denied by someone who disagree? This post is for YOU.
Please feel free to click on the above link and read Val today, if you could share some of your experiences or insights regarding similar manner, then you have Made A DIFFERENCE in life of others. Commenting either on this blog or on Val’s blog are greatly encouraged and appreciated.
Thank You! Have A Smooth Sailing on First Tuesday of 2010. You Deserve The Best!
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